Next time you see her walk out the door in that slightly flatter shirt, notice her shoulders. Are they relaxed? Is she standing taller? That’s the real measure—not whether you understand, but whether she feels seen.
Let her know that you’re on her team, no binding required. The beauty of being a parent is that you don’t have to have all the answers—you just have to show up, coffee in hand, ready to listen. And maybe, one day, she’ll show you her favorite TikTok about bindings, and you’ll laugh together.
That’s the easy-going life: messy, curious, and full of love that stretches to fit whatever shape she needs.