Here’s a shocking fact: your dog probably prefers you over a stranger, even if the stranger offers bacon. A 2019 study placed dogs in a room with their owner and a stranger. The stranger had treats; the owner had a couch. The dogs spent more time near the owner than the treat-giver. Yes, your dog would rather be ignored by you while you’re on your phone than get a free snack from a stranger. That is dedication.
But wait—there’s a catch. Your dog doesn’t understand the concept of love. He doesn’t think, “Ah, this human loves me for my character.” He thinks, “This human provides resources, safety, and ear scratches. I shall remain loyal.” It’s a transactional relationship, but the currency is adoring chaos. And honestly, isn’t that the purest form of love?
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If you want to double-check, try the “yawning test.” Dogs yawn when they’re anxious, but they also catch yawns from bonded humans. Sit across from your dog and yawn loudly. If he yawns back within 60 seconds, congratulations. You’re officially his emotional support human. If he doesn’t yawn, don’t panic. He might just think you’re boring. (Kidding. Mostly.)
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Also, pay attention to where your dog sleeps. If he chooses to sleep near you—even on the cold bathroom floor while you shower—that’s a major declaration of alliance. In the wild, sleeping together is vulnerable. Your dog is saying, “I trust you not to eat me while I’m unconscious.” That’s basically a canine vow of eternal friendship.
So, does your dog know you love him? Yes, absolutely, 100%. He knows it in the way your pillow knows your head shape after a week. He feels it in the oxytocin floods, the yawning, and the fact that you let him lick your face after he ate something dead on a walk. That is love, baby. Beautiful, disgusting, unshakeable love.
Now go give him a hug. He’ll sniff your neck, step on your bladder, and wag his tail so hard he knocks over a lamp. And you’ll know: the feeling is mutual—even if he still can’t figure out the carpet situation.
