This is your golden ticket. Dayenu (die-YAY-nu) means “it would have been enough.” You shout it after listing miracles God did for the ancient Israelites.
Fun fact: There’s a song with the same name. It’s a crowd-pleaser. If you mess up the lyrics, just slap your thigh and yell “Dayenu!” at random intervals. People will laugh and forgive you.
The song is basically a Jewish “Glory, Glory Hallelujah”—but wilder.
The Four Questions (Let a Kid Handle This)
Traditionally, the youngest person asks “Why is this night different?” It’s cute. It’s scripted. Do not volunteer.
If the kid freezes (they always do), someone’s aunt will jump in and read it in a sing-songy voice. Your job? Look interested. Nod. Say “Ah, good question.”
Quirky fact: The questions are about food. “Why do we eat bitter herbs?” and “Why do we dip twice?” It’s like a culinary mystery novel.