Equality for All of Our Daughters

Catherine Pino and Ingrid Duran

Every year, Mother’s Day strikes a special chord with both of us. While it gives us a chance to celebrate our daughters, it also reminds us that our children are still unequal in the eyes of our government. Our daughters, Catherine Pino and Ingrid Duran, have been together for close to a decade. They are [...]

Gender Confusion: When Body & Mind Don’t Coincide

Gender Confusion: When Body & Mind Don't Coincide

Recently, the case of what I’ll call a “sexless” child came to my attention. Mateo’s parents are friends of a friend and they live in Germany. Mateo has two loving parents and an older brother. The parents have been puzzled with their youngest child from very early on in life. Although the parents have accepted [...]

LGBT High School Senior Comes Out in Speech to Class

LGBT High School Senior Comes Out in Speech to Class

When high school senior Jacob Rudolph accepted his class award for Best Actor, he took the opportunity to reveal that he’d been acting “straight” on a daily basis. His courage in coming out so publicly at such a young age is inspirational to all LGBT teens. Just as inspirational, is his parents incredible acceptance and [...]

How to Talk to Your Kids About Gay Parents

gay parents, kids

Recent statistics show that roughly 25 percent of gay and lesbian couples in the U.S. are raising children as a family. So, that means that there’s a good chance that your kids may have one or more classmates with gay parents and they may have questions about these nontraditional households—questions that you need to be [...]

The Challenges of Gay Parenting

The Challenges of Gay Parenting

Although gay parenting is becoming more common in American society, same-sex parents and children still face many challenges when it comes to raising their children. According to the 2000 U.S. Census, 33% of female same-sex couples and 22% of male same-sex couples had children under 18 living in their households. That figure has been increasing [...]

Women’s 10 Most Common Sexual Fantasies

Sexual Fantasy: How Much is Normal?

Sexual fantasies are a normal, healthy, and necessary part of our sexuality. Although considered taboo, sexual fantasies are a way for us to gratify our wishes or conquer intrusive memories of early childhood trauma, according to psychotherapist Brett Kahr. Although fantasies are often kept locked in our memories, studies have found that women have recurrent [...]

My Daughter’s Two Gay Dads

My Daughter’s Two Gay Dads

On Father’s Day our daughter’s papa was at the beach. Not just any beach but that New York mecca for wealthy, sun-tanned gay party boys called Fire Island. Luna, our daughter, was home with her two Mommies adoringly decorating a ceramic plate to celebrate their day. “I Love Papa and Daddy,” she paints on their [...]

How to Handle the Topic of Homosexuality with Children

How to Handle the Topic of Homosexuality

Latina Mom TV host Tania Luviano was reading a book to her 5-year-old son when she found herself in a peculiar situation: The boy in the book turned out to have two mommies, which her son inquired about. Tania froze and then changed the subject. Coincidentally, this happened the same week President Obama made headlines [...]

Obama, Equality, and Two Gay Moms From Barnard

Obama, Equality, and Two Gay Moms From Barnard

This morning as we scrambled to get Luna off to school, there came a moment when the timeline of my life leapt into fast forward. I was carrying around an iPad turned to CNN, checking in to see what news awaited me at work, while Luna danced around me knowing my partner or I would [...]

Mami to Teen Daughter: I’m Gay

Mami to Teen Daughter: I'm Gay

I wasn’t sure how I was going to tell her. I was going through a deep internal battle. Things were happening to me and I was confused. What I felt was beautiful. It also scared me. It felt wrong. I wanted to push what I was feeling out of my body. I wanted to resist [...]